Trauma, Grief & Relationship Difficulties
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Processing trauma, profound grief, or sudden loss can leave you feeling entirely disconnected from your world. You may find yourself trapped in:
Intense emotional numbing or a chronic feeling of being unsafe in your own body
An agonizing fear of future loss that leaves you waiting for the other shoe to drop
A persistent avoidance of intimacy that causes you to keep others at a distance
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From a psychodynamic perspective, a current crisis often triggers unhealed wounds from previous experiences of loss, divorce, or repeated childhood separations. If you were also forced into early parentification—carrying adult responsibilities or managing caregiver emotions too soon—your own grief was likely pushed aside. This causes current relationship vulnerabilities to feel completely overwhelming and unsafe.
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The patterns you built to protect yourself took years to form; our goal is to understand them with patience, without rushing the pace. Using evidence-based medication, psychotherapy, or a combination of both, we work together to:
Work through and make sense of past losses that you were never previously free to express
Transform ingrained patterns and habits that compel you to push love or care away
Figure out what you need to create stable, genuinely fulfilling relationships